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Who has lost both parents at a relatively early age?
My mother died when I was sixteen my father when I was 28, children have no grandparents and my parents have not. It's not that I am a gift-grabber, but the fact that my in-laws do the minimum for my Christmas gift and sees me as a parasite in 'their' meeting, despite having been married to her son for sixteen years and mother of three of her five grandchildren. I do not even worry that if my parents were around, because they were / would be good and generous to all of us and made everything much more fun than my in-laws. Anyway, either both parents die and miss them very much even though you are older? How do you manage?
You recently answered my question about other people judge us by our decision to have only one child by now. Most parents do not intend their children to be alone. They do the best they can with what they have at that time. by spill milk. My husband is an only child. We just want a child's right now and give all the love I can before thinking about having another baby. As a Christian woman, I to say that life is about challenges. One of them is to overcome loneliness. One is never alone if you have God. I think you have a problem with you in laws and not their deceased parents. Sometimes argue with my mother in law, but I realized that I started to hurt my husband and that her mother is still blessed with life. All the world has a cross to bear in life, mine is my autistic sister and care at this time for my husband's parents. Just remember the good life their parents gave you and think about your current family now.
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